Hola lovers!

With spring in full swing, I’m sure your social calendars are bursting with invites:  barbecues, concerts, a hoedown  on a dude ranch (no? just me?)

Today I’ve styled an ensemble for the more formal occasions on your docket.

Regardless of the designer, a bold colorful printed jacket, shift dress in a solid color, pendant and a killer pair of heels is a great template to ensure you’re the (aesthetic) hit of the party.

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Givenchy Croc-Stamped Clutch

Matthew Williamson Embroidered-Tweed Jacket

Givenchy Rock Crystal Pendant Necklace 

Stella McCartney Sheer Dress

Louboutin Python June

what i know for sure

April 13, 2013

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I always love reading others responses to Oprah’s famed “what I know for sure” question – maybe because I never feel like I have a sage answer, or doubt that my answer is “right” so I look to others to compare (did I mention I’m insecure?).

I realise there is no “right” or “wrong” answer to this question (it’s subjective after all), so I sound particularly ridiculous right now. Still, I always feel like the answers I generate are lame. Sure, I may feel like I know something “for sure” today, but tomorrow? God only knows. (Youth is totally wasted on the young.)

And yet, one thing I find constantly fascinating about this question is the commonality of answers  - like “all is well,” or “love is it.” Regardless of ones background or lifestyle, there seem to be salient truths - universal truths – that we know for sure because, well, they’re true.

As previously noted, I’m terribly ambivalent (blame it on being a Libra), but tonight, here’s what I “know for sure:”

1. We’re not supposed to have all the answers. Not knowing is okay.

2. Easy does it. You’re exactly where you’re supposed to be in this moment.

3. We’re all connected. Everyone really does subconsciously know everything. (Remember that the next time you’re tempted to lie.)

4. Love is the bottom line. When you honor what you love – whether a place (in my case, England), a person, a career path – what you love will show up, magically and consistently. Unhappiness is a byproduct of NOT honoring your passions.

5. Six degrees of separation is real. If there’s someone you really want to meet, put it out there. You’d be surprised at who you know who knows someone who knows someone who knows that person.

6. There’s an unforeseen hand guiding us in every moment. You can either trust that there’s a bigger picture unfolding (I think that’s called “having faith”) or you can choose anxiety and think everything “should be different” or “happening faster.” Your call.

7. Depression is an indicator you’re self-obsessing. So get out of your head and go do something for someone else. Connect with others. I guarantee  that you’re not going through anything that someone hasn’t already gone through before.

8. “Dog” isn’t “God” spelled backwards accidentally.

9. “Good” or “bad” is all a matter of perception. Some of the so-called disasters of my life (like missing an international flight and spending the night in Heathrow airport on a restaurant coach – I kid you not) led to the most miraculous, life-transforming connections.

10. The purpose of life is to live it – fearlessly, and with a wide open heart.

spotlight on: dvf

March 27, 2013

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Lovers! Sincerest apologies for neglecting you (and my blog) this month. But rest assured I am back! In this instance, to share the latest drool-worthy pieces from Diane Von Furstenberg.

My Mum bought me my first DVF wrap dress when I was seventeen (yes, I was utterly spoiled). The fact that, a decade later, I still have it, it actually fits, and is still “in vogue,” is a testament to DVF’s brilliance and unparalleled staying power (nevermind the timeless appeal of the wrap dress). The word “iconic” is soo overused, yet I can’t think of a more apropos word to describe DVF’s wrap dress. Regardless of your age or body type, the wrap dress is universally flattering (and this is coming from someone who almost never wears dresses.)

ANYWAY. After three decades in the industry, DVF’s Fall 2013 runway collection was my favorite yet. Probably because the clothes had a potent “rock ‘n roll” vibe (think fur vests, metallics, leopard print), while still maintaining von Furstenberg’s decidedly feminine appeal.

At the end of the day, I will always be most drawn to the rocker aesthetic. I mean, doesn’t everyone (even movie stars) harbour a secret desire to be a rock star? Von Furstenberg’s said that, “Every woman wants to be glamourous and rock’n roll.” Why? I think Diane hit the nail on the head when she remarked,”It’s not about going to the party. It’s life as a party.” And who would know that better than a rockstar.

*Photos courtesy of Style.com

HOLA LOVERS!

Michelle, my writing-partner-in-crime, and I are back in all our high fashion glory to answer your most most pressing clothing conundrums.

Last time we taught you what to wear on your wedding night.

This round we’re here to teach you how to dress high fashion (haute couture) while embracing the floods like Noah.

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*Today’s post is written by a guest writer

When most think “Parisian Fashion,” they think “Haute Couture.” Yet, most of us don’t know the first thing about “haute couture” (and those who do are frequently misinformed). No judgment. If you too are clueless, you’re in good company. Most people (myself included until recently) have a big of misconception about what “haute couture” is; even ever-candid superstar Jennifer Lawrence, who freely admitted on the Golden Globes’ red carpet that she was “wearing Dior Haute Couture. I don’t know what “haute” means, but they told me to say it.”

Subsequently, I thought the timing was perfect to dish out a lesson in haute couture, courtesy of style icon (and avid haute couture collector and wearer) Daphne Guinness.

(Don’t worry. It won’t be cumbersome. I assure you it won’t take longer than a game of “binguez.)”

The literal meaning of “haute couture” is “high dressmaking.” In this instance, “high fashion” refers to “exclusive, custom-fitted clothing.”

Charles Frederick Worth was the first designer to produce “haute couture” pieces in mid-1800′s Paris. Specifically, Worth created “one-of-a-kind pieces” for his affluent clients. The client would specify fabrics and colors, and Worth would  individually tailor  each unique piece to the clients’ measurements.

Nowadays, haute couture is a “protected name” – in France by law – and only fashion houses whom the regulating commission deems “eligible” can dub themselves “haute couture houses.”

Sadly, haute couture is a dying art form. Fifty years ago there were more than one hundred operating haute couture houses. Currently, there’s a mere ten high-ranking couture houses.

Haute couture’s downward spiral is one I hope is soon reversed for, extravagant as it may seem, haute couture is the living soul of dressmaking.

“People think ‘couture’ just means expensive, and that’s just completely wrong,” Daphne Guinness stipulated in an interview with Alex Fury. “Yes, if you’re buying something that’s beaded from head to foot of course it’s going to be expensive; but you’re not paying for the name. You’re paying for the artisan, the concentration of the work. And it shows! The more intention you put into something, the more you can see it. If somebody runs something off very, very quickly and just writes their name off, you can see it. And the more you concentrate on something, the more of yourself is invested in it. It just means so much more.”

On the flip side, haute couture is also a BUSINESS.  Guinness goes on to articulate, “These are industries; these are jobs;” and, in the case of many houses, “two, three hundred years worth of families that know how to make lace and sew.

This isn’t about rich people putting on something so that they can look better than everyone else; it really isn’t about that.”

So what IS it about?

I believe Guinness nailed it when she stated haute couture was about the “artisan, the concentration of the work,” as well as YOUR OWN investment in the process. (Cost aside, making a couture piece requires a timely commitment to multiple fittings on the clients end.)

Ultimately, as with anything, the more of yourself you commit to the process, the more meaningful the end product will be. And haute couture is no exception to that. If anything, it’s the rule.